It's funny. As we begin our life's journey - our parents, friends and loved ones offer all sorts of well-intentioned advice.
You hear about... what organizations to be affiliated with, and what principles to live by. What will provide the best academic success, to achieve a high financial set-point, and how to have a happy family life.
And so we set out creating our lives, to have ALL the things by a certain age. The career job, the house, the car, the spouse, the kids and the ability to live comfortably.
And yes, we have all accepted it to some extent, THIS is what life looks like. These are the standards to measure one's success.
I remember when I was so appalled by this concept as it was communicated to me, that I vehemently expressed my shock in a string of sharp words.
"What??! I grow up, get a good job, get married, have kids and die???"
And I was asked what else would I want to add to the equation. And I instantly piqued, "Well, for starters, I could be a comedian!"
I wasn't kidding though. I felt the fun was sucked out of life in that equation. "Why do we have to make ourselves suffer in this way?" I wondered. "Why live this kind of life?"
You see, all my life, I was being reminded to fit myself into a mold. A mold, that I did not create. I was too-a lot-of-things. Too happy. Too loving. Too generous. Too optimistic. Too emotional. Too caring. Too....sigh! I was told that I was a dreamer, and dreamers cannot survive in today's world. There isn't a place in society for them without them suffering from the inability to earn a livelihood.
My spirit got crushed in that moment. "Why was I here then? Why did God put me on this planet if there was no place for me?" I wondered .
And so I tried to "do the right thing". Work strategically. And I succeeded. Eventually. After lots of hard work. Until I was guided to acknowledge that my lifespan for this kind of lifestyle is up.
This time I fully embraced my intuition while allowing my strategic self to gently assist in co-creating my new reality.
And what I rediscovered was that I had the right approach all along. It was the kind of approach that works for me and people like me. (You know yourselves - you are the people who think or speak something (including money) and it shows up in your reality....and when you urgently need something it doesn't work...(grin)) .
And that's when the truth hit me. If there is one regret that the world suffers from, is the regret of "NOT DREAMING BIG ENOUGH".
Because the truth is, we are magnificent creators and some of us live our whole lives before realizing that our life was played out like a perfect movie. It was simply a projection that is relative to our inner script. The script that was created by the "bigness" of our dreams, our self-belief and the level of resistance in our cellular bodies when co-creating with other humans.
I'll give you a moment to let that sink in.
Said another way (by my guides), "Give yourself the opportunity to have the grandness of your human experience!"
Now get out there, Dream big and make your dreams a reality!
Love you all!
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