Allowing is you being non-resistant.
It means not judging something.
Saying that this thing/person is good therefore I want it,
but this thing/person is bad so stay the hell away from me!
Yes, that is judgement.
It’s like going to the buffet table and seeing what you want and what you don’t want, then you spend your time trying to call in the Managers to clear away all the things that you don/t want so that you can enjoy your plate filled with all of what you actually wanted.
But wait a minute, where did you put your focus?
According to the law of attraction, you attract what is in your dominant vibration. This leads you to getting more what you resist, yes? Because your energy is greater in the resistance of it, and therefore the Universe gives you more of that.
We then ask, why isn’t this working for me? It is, it’s all always working, and doesn’t need you to do anything to set it into motion. Just like your heart. You are not needed to make it work. You – in your human self may actually be guilty of getting in the way and make it work haphazardly or you may even make it stop altogether.
Ok, I admit extreme examples made too simplistic. But, yes ultimately that’s how the law works. Trust the law to do it’s part. You take care of where you put your attention towards. What are you focusing on?
And how about accommodating, how does that trip you up?
Well, for starters, you let everyone have their life experiences while you forget to declare your desires, so that you can also have what you what, while they have what they want. Why do you have to wait at the side-lines until they are satisfied/happy and retires for the day, then you venture out to have your “me” time?
Can you see how this can be a recipe for disaster? It means you NEVER have time to do what you REALLY want. It means that it becomes a perpetual cycle where you crave the supportive container that you so deeply desire. And there is a ton of other unsaid feelings and unmet needs that can stem out of this.
Trust me, I know. I have been there. And now that I know better, I’m sharing this with you so that you too can be aware of your choices and choose differently. Make choices that are more in alignment with who you truly are.
What do I really want?
What do I really want to experience in this moment?
It always comes back to this.
Your desires influence your reality – either by having it or having the opposite of it (when you aren’t allowing it in).
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A bird came to me this morning and landed on a protruding twig that stuck out from a young neem tree just a few feet away from me.
As I proceeded to observe her more keenly I asked the Universe, “What is she here to teach me?”
She observed her environment for a split second and proceeded to clean her beak. She took split second breaks to be in tune with her environment as she got the job done.
I got distracted from her immaculate cleaning by a wasp floating around me, a little too close for comfort. I stared at it as it was oblivious to my presence, keenly focusing on the flowering plants nearby and as it floated higher I got the answer to my question that I asked earlier.
The bird represented love and the wasp fear. Not literally, but of course as I examined my reaction to them, that was the truth.
Even though we have love in front of us, we spend more time focusing on fear, in the hope that by giving attention to it, we will be alert. Prepared. Ready to protect ourselves in case we become a victim to its fury.
And what does the Law of Attraction do? Match our experiences to the thing we give attention to. We create our own self-fulfilling prophecies.
In an instant, I chose love.
Then the bird proceeded to the next step. Self-grooming. She primed her feathers as she basked in the comfort of her surroundings. She felt safe, secure and quite sure of herself. She was loving herself as she became one with nature.
What do you consciously choose to place your attention on today?
Imagine for a moment, what a beaded necklace looks like….when your 7 year old makes it.
Let the beads be blobs of thoughts and the spaces in between, the bits of silence between thoughts.
You can expand or shrink this space. And it affects the way time is perceived in your reality.
If information is downloaded then time expands and you have more of it.
If you are the one thinking then you sometimes hasten the process, with grabbing a series of “beaded” thoughts and consequently shrink time.
Therefore it’s a good practice to take a mindful moment, here and there, to add space to your thoughts, time to your life and longevity to your cellular structure!
Yes I’ve inadvertently given you a tip for increased vitality and eternal youth!
Lessons from my toddler: Today my little one was excited about receiving a jasmine flower.
She grinned, sniffed its fragrance and then gave it to me. I took it and breathed in its sweet fragrance. As I paused, we exchanged big smiles and I returned it to her.Suddenly this became her new favorite game, where we exchanged one flower over and over again repeating the same sequence of actions.
My guides used the opportunity to point out that, THIS (what we were doing) is a simplified expression of the essence (pun intended) of life! This is flow, a perfect exchange of giving and receiving!
How can you apply this lesson today? Are you in flow or do you buy into the notion of saving the best for last?
Sending love and blessings your way!